2011年6月22日星期三

Theory friendship

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About relationships, I gradually summarizes a the most appropriate, the principle of the temperament of the I is personal respect each other, according to situation. I believe that all good friendship are naturally forms, not intended for. I also think, again good friend should also have a distance, too busy friendship is often empty things.
2
Get along with people, if you feel all the more relaxed, in relaxed and feel real advice, I bet you must meet the same of you, even if you are engaged in very different occupation.
3
Philosophers, poets, musicians, artists have their own jargon. Sometimes, different jargon said the same meaning. Sometimes, the same kind of jargon with different meaning.
An interlacing as foster, but no can't go over the top of the mountain, the gulf between the soul is not insurmountable. Our counterparts, the friend jargon conversations.
The most profound distinguish between people is not professional, and in mind.
4
See the shops communication art professor was successful and best-selling books, I always feel funny. A person likes to one, and he or she made a friend, or to one thing, managed to get interested in it, this was supposed to be successful is naturally. Don't remember what points is can't make friends, not pronunciation secret do not cause, visible lack of true feelings really interested in how....... But, no true feelings, how can have true friends? Not really interested, how can have true career? Since it is so, why assiduously in communication and success? To do so, of course, have obvious utilitarian motivation, but that is the surface, the deeper the reason is spiritual emptiness, so anxious to look for shortcuts hide in the crowd and affairs. I don't know how the effect, only know if such communication home near my side, I will be the more feeling lonely, if such winners stand in front of me, I will feel more boring.
5
Books, like friends, but at least one exception, is read that teach friends technique the book.
Make friends with art, true friends die.
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Friendship is tolerant. Because of this, friends, parents, is often once irrevocable, explain their differences will be very serious, has come to the point of not tolerance.
Only in the good friend can occur between break this kind of thing, the past exchanges deeper and deeper now is more difficult to repair cracks, and maintain an all-right friends and appear too not natural. As for was just fair-weather friends, don't hand over to this is ambiguous, was also far from broke up.
7
Flare character easy get many friends, but true friends always very little. The NaQing loneliness, once get friends, is often true.
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My idea of a friend is not a fair-weather friends acquaintance, don't know each other's mind bosom friend, degree when in between. In this world there are a number of individuals, not meet each other, will remember met can feel a tacit understanding, together have a good time, they are in my mind to friends.
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This is a lonely man. One day, the world many lonely people found his lonely, so to discuss the matter with his friends. He has confused: them because I believe I was lonely and their friends, I have so many friends, they no longer alone, how to have qualified for their friends?
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Understanding is the life for great joy. However, a search for understanding, no other people's understanding and the people is a poor sorrow, the value of his pinned on understanding of others the person above often and no value.
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A philosopher said, friends are like clothes, will wear the old, need to keep update. On the contrary: friends it is that a few a few won't replace old clothes. New clothes of course might as well to wear a wear, but can't make friends, less than in old when the judge is not.
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The friendship between the opposite sex, of course, can't rule out the sexual attraction factors, but it can still is a kind of true friendship. In this case, sex of mysterious power by the objective situation or subjective effort and be limited in a beneficial hurtless, already but the status to the opposite sex on a friendship cover for same sex friendship had not some sweet taste, and not like love and with a kind of mad possessive. In my opinion, if can abiding to do this, this is the most wonderful a between heterosexual relationships.

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